How to Choose the Right Music & DJ for Your Wedding
By On Air Productions LA
Music sets the tone for every moment of your wedding day — from the ceremony processional to the last dance. Choosing the right DJ and musical selections is one of the most important decisions you'll make as a couple.
Start with Your Vision
Before booking anyone, sit down as a couple and discuss the overall feel you want for your wedding. Do you want an intimate, elegant atmosphere with soft background music during dinner? A high-energy dance party? A blend of traditional songs and modern hits? Your musical vision should guide every decision that follows.
Evaluate DJ Experience
Not all DJs are created equal. Look for a DJ who specializes in weddings and has experience with your specific event style. Ask to see testimonials, watch performance videos, and have a detailed conversation about their approach to wedding entertainment.
Discuss Must-Play & Do-Not-Play Lists
A professional DJ will ask for both a must-play list (songs that are essential to you) and a do-not-play list (songs you absolutely do not want). At On Air Productions LA, we use a client portal system to plan every detail of your musical journey.
Plan Music for Each Phase
- Ceremony: Processional, unity ceremony, recessional
- Cocktail hour: Background music that sets the mood
- Dinner: Softer music that allows conversation
- First dances: Couple, parent dances
- Reception: High-energy dance floor music
- Last dance: A memorable final song
“With 18+ years of experience, DJ Gilad Emesh specializes in reading the crowd and creating the perfect energy for every moment of your celebration.”

